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I love Seeing the Point where Women Break through

Writer: Christiane PanesarChristiane Panesar



It's so interesting to me. So touching. So inspiring.


It doesn't really interest or touch me


When it's all "figured out" (apparently)


Zipped up


Held together


Perfect on the outside.


For example, a person who’s super confident


And very convinced of themselves


Maybe really good looking


Meh 🤷‍♀️


But a person who’s rather shy


With a quiet voice


And maybe not the biggest beauty at first glance…


Seeing them tap into something real and


Draw from something bigger than themselves


AND bring that out into the surface


Through all the layers


Cracking through the shell


That’s sooo DELICIOUS! 🫦


I’m thinking of my friend’s wedding a few years ago


How she was standing at the beginning of the long isle all by herself


In the white dress, the high heels, and carrying the flowers 💐


Visibly afraid


I remember her decent down the aisle


She was shaking


All over her body


Never dressed like that before


Never wore that much eye liner


New to heels


Everyone’s looking


Don’t trip


All the eyes on you


Cameras too…


She looked straight ahead


Chin up


Stepping forward


Trembling but CLEAR what she was stepping into it


She made it her victory walk 🎇🎆🎇


It was GLORIOUS to witness


Each step spoke to her vulnerability


She did it DESPITE herself


It was the strength in her vulnerability that fascinated me


I thought it would have not really stayed in my memory for so many years


If she would have been super “confident” and the picture perfect bride


It stayed with me because there was an outerwordly beauty and strength that shone through


I could see HER 🖤


She didn’t cover up that she was nervous


That this was BIG for her


That this was totally out of her comfort zone


And she broke through in that moment


Connected to her deeper level womaness ❤️‍🔥


Moving from her true power


And unapologetically expressing it


Sharing it with everyone in the room


I feel honoured I was there to witness that


What was touched in me in that moment


I will always carry with me 🔥

 
 
 

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